On a journey to find the silver linings

On a journey to find the silver linings

Monday, January 13, 2014

Love God, Love People. Sounds great... right?

   We've all heard this one, right? When pressed by the Pharisees for an answer to, "what is the greatest commandment in the Law," Jesus answered, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.”

   Of course you've heard it, and what a great goal! We've surely all been taught that THIS is how we are to be as Christians; to love God with all of our hearts, souls, minds, and bodies first and foremost, above all - followed by loving our neighbor just as much as we love ourselves. I mean, that's what Jesus said, right?

    Sounds fabulous, until you realize that Jesus gave the Pharisees "Law question" a Law answer. He directed them back to the heart of it, which is where they wanted to be and what they were questioning Him about.

    The Greatest Commandment is just that; a Commandment. It puts us right back under the crushing weight of the Old Testament and those constraints we thought we're all free of and happily deny in our lives as Christians.

    But we are physically and spiritually incapable of loving God the way Jesus commanded. At least, I am anyway. Maybe you're better at this than me. In any given day I fall completely short of that mark - I sin - (which is an old archery term for "missing the bullseye.") As much as I TRY to love God with all of my heart & soul & mind, I don't REALLY love him that way in actuality. And as much as I TRY to love my neighbor as much as I love myself, I can't. And I don't. And then I feel guilty, and then I feel like a bad Christian, and then I wonder what's wrong with me. And I eventually want to give up because I can never get that "love God and love people" thing right.

    So there you go. I do not fulfill what Jesus answered to them, because I am simply incapable of fulfilling the Law. Why? Because I am weak, I am selfish, and I am a sinner - and I'm quite good at those things.

    And then I have to ask; why on earth would Jesus do that? Why would he lay the Law right on us? On me? The greatest thing He said to do is "love God and love people" and I fail miserably at it.

    Ah, but there is hope. (And I need to remind myself of this every day, every hour). The next thing Jesus says when He turns to the crowds of people and his disciples is about the Pharisees and is what always gets left out of a "love God and love people" message. (Conveniently, because those messages usually involve an "activation" of serving the church's vision or a giving of money somehow). In Matthew 23, Jesus completely shreds the Pharisees publicly for putting the people under the Laws and not keeping them themselves, and He unloads both guns. He unleashes the Seven Woes on them for burdening the people with the Laws that no human being (other than Himself) is capable of keeping.

    It may make you think twice next time you hear that catchy "Love God and Love People" phrase; it's everywhere in American Christianity, and very trendy these days. Check out just about any evangelical church's website anywhere in the country and you'll see some variation of it on their home page as a welcoming invitation. It's a constant theme in contemporary Christian songs, and for visual reference just go to Pinterest and search the phrase.

    Sounds very spiritual to love God first and your neighbor like yourself - pretty noble, actually. Until you realize that it's a LAW. And not just any Law - thee GREATEST Law. So don't mess that one up, man. Because once you subject yourself to it, you are condemned by it. As the disciple James says, "whoever keeps the law but fails in one point has become accountable to all of it." Ouch.

    This truly is the essential problem we could never fix on our own. It's the very Law that requires the sacrifice of a million doves beyond your reach. It's the Law that condemns us with our fallen reflection and sends us to hell for not measuring up to God's standard. It's the singular reason why Jesus willingly stepped out of eternal heaven onto this dying earth.

    In Galatians Paul addresses the church about this very thing of keeping the Law, and he reminds them that, "It is for freedom (from the Law) that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery."

    Keep in mind that anything that you do is law, but anything that Jesus does is grace. Remember WHO is doing the work when you're loving God and when you're loving your neighbor.

    So yes, I will love God, but only because God Himself gives me the faith for even that, since I'm incapable of it on my own. 
And I will fail at loving him as fully as He is worthy and deserving of, but I will ask forgiveness and will be given grace. 
And yes, I will love my neighbor, but I will also fail at that - at what I didn't do, at what I did do, and at what I didn't do well enough. But my neighbors need my good helps anyway, and I will ask forgiveness for my shortcomings and know that God has mercy and patience for me and my measly works.

    In the end I will love God and love people, but not because I have to, but because I get to. Not because of a commandment put on me by a well-meaning church to do so; I will do it under the grace Christ gives because HE first loved me.

25 comments:

  1. Nice. Love the meat of this thought, and tickled at how it coincides with a convo I had with a friend tonight. I'm gonna have to take this thought seriously, eh?

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  2. Thanks Sara! Glad it fit in with what you're thinking on today - that's pretty cool!

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  4. The law will always condemn you to hell. Great post!

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  5. Thank you for posting this! It's what I needed to hear!

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    1. I'm glad it was the right thing at the right time Jamie :0)

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  6. I think it helps to remember Jesus' words as a summary of the 10 Commandments: Love God (I-III) and Love neighbor (IV-X). Also, we remember that Jesus is the only one who kept the law in its entirety, on our behalf, as we should, for our benefit. When seen through Christ's atonement, the Law really becomes good news indeed for the Christian.

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    1. I totally agree Matt! The Law is definitely to there to remind us of all that we can't do - and that Jesus did for us. So good to know the Law so we appreciate the Grace we have been given.

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  7. Well, said. That's been my "mantra" with my daughters at times. Thanks for the reset.

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    1. Thank you Rachael! Now you need a new "mantra" for your daughters, eh? ;0)

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  8. Really great post, Tanya. These are all the same thoughts and feelings I battle on a near-daily basis, and it was nice to hear there are others out there like me. Loved it!

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    1. Oh you're so welcome! I love your response too - I've felt for so long that I'm the only one who thinks this way. I'm glad, like you said, that "there are others out there like me." ;0)

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  9. One of the most brilliant post I ever read! The twist and turns are outstanding. Thank you.

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  10. Excellent post, Tanya. Can't wait to see what the future holds for this blog. Hopefully, you will be more active than I have been. :-)

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  11. For years I attended a Methodist church where this was their 'gospel' - it was about the only scripture they believed in. With that and the social gospel, I never heard the true gospel - not once, and that was true at three Methodist churches across five or six pastors. Not saying it's only the Methodist church, but my wife and I are now truly saved (Praise GOD!) and are blessed to hear sound Biblical preaching every Sunday.

    Thank you for this clear and timely message, and thank you to Amy Hunnicut Kayler and Chris Rosebrough for sharing a link so we could find it.

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    1. Thank you for sharing your thoughts Rick - and sorry it took me so long to respond! I'm glad you and your wife have plugged in to a good church after years of hearing a wrong gospel. I appreciate your comment! :0)

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  12. Law and Gospel... Clear and consider. Thank you!

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  13. Some time ago, I blogged about some ways that "conservative" churches go "liberal." Turning the Gospel into "Love God and love your neighbor"-- confusing Law and Gospel-- was my #1 consideration in the overlap. http://kellyklages.wordpress.com/2012/01/08/some-ways-that-conservative-christians-go-liberal/

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    1. Hi Kelly! I'll check out that link you posted! :0)

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  14. A great response to the cry of all those feel-goody Christians out there.

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    1. I appreciate your comment on my little blog post :0)

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